How To Love Me
A few weeks ago into a video on youtube by youtuber Shannon Boodram on a project called "How To Love Me". What this project is essentially is you sitting down and making a list of things that make you feel loved and cared for, the way that a plant would come with instructions on how to take care of it. The idea was no matter how much you loved the plant and wanted it to grow it would not unless you cared for it properly. Why should relationships be any different ? we cannot expect people to know how to care for us properly when most of the times we don't even know how to care for ourselves, the only thing you can expect from someone is for them to be willing to learn, but I have to first create the environment for me to be loved properly. This is especially important to me because i've noticed people (including me sometimes) have the habit of loving you how they feel like doing it and expect that you should just be grateful because they did something, well I'm