The Adventures of Hood Spice

LET ME BE CLEAR! This is not to say that I do not want to succeed, what I'm saying is failing is inevitable, its a fate we all at some point or another accept, almost to the point of being comfortable with it. when things don't work out we go "Oh, that's life" or " Shit happens, maybe next" or more famously "Its cool, sometimes the things you want most wont work out" Ive become accustomed to taking the "failure" and moving on to the next best thing. But this year I've decided to remain consistent; I wondered what would happen if I just kept on pushing forward even if I don't know how I'm going to pay for my dreams. What if I just walked on faith and believed that the universe would answer for me. I am definitely normally more of a, I'll believe it when I see it sort of person but I acknowledged that that frame of mind wasn't getting me anywhere, so I decided to got out on a limb. Now the universe didn't i

A few weeks ago into a video on youtube by youtuber Shannon Boodram on a project called "How To Love Me". What this project is essentially is you sitting down and making a list of things that make you feel loved and cared for, the way that a plant would come with instructions on how to take care of it. The idea was no matter how much you loved the plant and wanted it to grow it would not unless you cared for it properly. Why should relationships be any different ?  we cannot expect people to know how to care for us properly when most of the times we don't even know how to care for ourselves, the only thing you can expect from  someone is for them to be willing to learn, but I have to first create the environment for me to be loved properly. This is especially important to me because i've noticed people (including me sometimes)  have the habit of loving you how they feel like doing it and expect that you should just be grateful because they did something, well I'm

" You do not get what you deserve, you get what you accept." Every couple of years or so ill notice a bunch of very confusing things will start happening that ill perceive as "bad" things are happening to me. Its always one cohesive lesson, what just clicked to me today that for the last 3 years that is what life has been trying to teach me. Up until this point I was one of those people that would super over extend myself for people that I cared for and would barely receive half that in return. I also had the habit of picking up "projects" people that you KNOW cannot love you adequately because they've been extremely hurt or damaged in some way, but for what ever reason thinking you can love them back to happiness. I am naturally a nurturer and a healer if I see you hurting its my first instinct to want to help, but I always do it to the point of sacrificing myself. its almost like I work hard to get myself together just to meet you and then trans

So... let me explain to you all how this whole vibrator fiasco began. One day about two years ago me and my best friend Wildly Brittish were having a conversation about how masturbation was so weird. It was just a concept that I wasn't accustomed to, as I told you guys before we didn't speak about sex much at all in my household I was the first of my immediate friends to lose my virginty  and I was pretty private. I just knew about humping things or people; which I guess was a form of masturbation but yeah that was about as far as my knowledge went. Also I grew up with five siblings and mother and father in the house so yeah there wasn't  much time or space to really be twiddling my Fingers on my vag. But, now that I am older and my life calling turns out to be holistic sexual health and wellness but more specifically feminine health and wellness, I now get the importance in knowing how to please yourself. So Brittany and I decided to goto The Pleasure Chest which was

The challenge lasts form August 1 through the 30th “30 days of sexy” in a nutshell for anyone who wants to participate is a commitment to take better care of your physical, emotional and sensual/ sexual self. I don’t know any woman who doesn’t want to feel sexy and powerful, but I think it’s important that we don’t wait for other people to make us feel sexy. So I want go on a journey on how we can give ourselves that power. So often we make time for everything but ourselves these 30 days are dedicated to you! To start off I suggest getting a notebook, doesn’t have to be anything fancy. The first thing you’ll do is quickly surveying yourself. Questions to ask yourself: 1. Which part of your body/ personality are you the most proud of? 2. Which part of your body/ personality are you the least proud of? 3. Are you willing to commit to your happiness and well-being? 4. When do you feel the most sexy/ confident? 5. Are you willing to give up things and people who do not se

" no, I don't want to play with you." I said sternly "but, why?" she asked annoyingly for the thousandth time, It was my recess and I didn't want to play with her, and like the little itch that I was I turned around and said "Because you get on my nerves, and I don't want to play with you." little did I know she was about to hit me with that fire, as I've said before Ive always for the most part been pretty brutally honest especially when I didn't like something. she then yells " you know what, I don't want to play with you anyway you're mean thats why your dad isn't really your dad" I give her the illest ill grill " what are you even talking about stupid yes he is." with a smirk on her face she goes "NO, he's not I heard my mom and dad talking about it thats why yal don't have the same last name." I was in elementary school and the girl who told me was my play cousin, and when